the inevitable physical differences would exist and women would likely be inherently disadvantaged in the face of things like sexual coercion unless for SOME magic reason all men opposed rape
No one needs magic. I'm not suggesting a magic change in human nature where everyone will be perfect. This isn't going to happen in your "ancom" utopia either. I've already said this.
Similarly, anyone who is physically handicapped would be at a disadvantage unless someone was sympathetic.
You are right. Owning a damaged body is a disadvantage. You are not refuting anything.
The only way you could rule that out is just have everyone running around putting bullets in each other as a deterrent, in which case, I'd ask why KILLING A PERSON (a form of force/assumption of authority) would be practiced in some "ethical" way seeing as if I shot you for "exploiting" me, I could easily have just made up a story just because I wanted to nab your wallet when you hit the ground. Similarly, if I'm more wealthy than you, I might just get myself a tank to crush you and your friends who realize you can take what's "mine" by simply outnumbering me; yet, on the other hand, if I'm not well-off enough to have a militia or something, I'm at the mercy of any aggregate that can outpower me unless I'm REALLY good with a gun lol.
Oh no, the chaos argument, like I've never faced this before. This is what nation states already do. In a world where the people performing such actions actually bear the costs of their behavior, it will happen a lot less. I feel like I'm arguing with a statist right now. Are you really making the anarchy is chaos argument?
I won't waste the space quoting your whole last paragraph, because the response is basically the same. People COULD take your stuff. But right now, they DO take your stuff. The what if we end up with organized violence argument fails, because we already have that. This is the area we are supposed to agree upon, since you call yourself an anarchist.
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It is no coincidence that "anarcho"-capitalists try to limit the definition of anarchy or anarchism purely to opposition to the state or government. This is because capitalist property produces authoritarian structures (and so social relations) exactly like the state. By focusing on "government" rather than "authority," they hide the basic contradiction within their ideology namely that the "anarcho"-capitalist definition of private property is remarkably close to its definition of the state.
No, I don't only oppose government. I oppose the institutionalization of violence as a means of guiding human relationships, in any name, whether government or not. Your term hierarchy means nothing.
Next paragraphs.... Your post is long with absolutely no substance. Your whole argument is that property owning is unethical, which doesn't make sense. If that is the only objection you can raise then raise it. And I'll destroy it. Don't mumble on with your emotional BS about "exploitation," I've been there, defeated that.